Bangin Beats By REL
October 15, 2009
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 In This Issue
Here's what you'll find in this week's newsletter:

Just My Thoughts: I make my life what it is!

What's New? New website under development.

Other Stuff: Natasha's album project continues! Did you read my blog posts?

Wisdom From The Grind: The quality of your relationships can make or break deals!
 Just My Thoughts

Roger E LearSometimes I have to say out loud, “I make my life what it is!” I choose to get up or sleep in. I choose to be on time or not. I choose to make an excuse or not care what another thinks about something I have or haven’t done.

I choose to plan my next move or just drift. I choose to rush because I’ve wasted so much time in the past and now I feel behind schedule, or accept that I am right where I’m supposed to be given my choices, but I don’t have to be behind schedule this time next week, next month, or next year.

I can choose to see my life however I choose to, including taking on another person’s point of view, which looks clearer than mind until my own vision drives me toward whatever clearer vision allows me to see. I can choose to accept that every other person on the planet either reaps a benefit or misses one because of my positive contribution to life itself, or lack thereof.

I stand on this knowing that, whatever it takes, whatever must be overcome, I will give to this life what is requested of me. Faithful stewardship in the execution of the gifts placed in me. To do what I was placed here to do is my only real mission. Live well, love deeply, learn continually and leave a legacy.

The question is what will you do? Contribute or consume? Give or take? Uplift or diminish? Win or go home empty? I make my life what it is!

Just my thoughts.

-REL

 What's New?

We are grinding here at SCR Entertainment, so while we diligently push through the workload, please be patient; you’ll love the new website!

A website we are developing which is essentially the whole catalog of SCR Entertainment is now in the works. The first 12 SCR releases dating back to 1993 plus all of the new works will all be available. At launch we will have over 150 tracks with more coming!

While the site is being completed, we are going to be adding a few albums on a new page on BanginBeatsByREL.com which is being worked on at this time. Currently, we intend to launch the SCR Vault site with the release of my first solo album “Spoken”, currently planned for December.

Here is a breakdown of the 5 most recent beats added to the site:

  • Mo Fo U - Other Flavor
  • Jazzy Funk - East Coast
  • In The Hole - Club Flavor
  • West Coast Funk - West Coast
  • Symphony Funk - West Coast
 Other Stuff 

All through October you can read my blog for updates and progress on the things I’m working on.

 Wisdom From The Grind 

Every day I am reminded of this truth; “My relationships are the most important aspect of my success equation.” My skill is second

For the sake of the point let’s assume you have skill. Let us further assume that given the opportunity you can display that skill excellently. You have spent the time refining, rehearsing and scrutinizing what you do and you really are good at what you do.

OK, you are ready for the big break. Then what do you do? It’s time for a little perspective.

Is music, in whatever area in which you are involved, what you really want to do as a career or is it just what you happen to be doing right now? It’s important to be honest with yourself about this because the answer often governs your choices and results. When you operate from the perspective of music being what you happen to be doing as a means to some other end, then very often the contacts you make are viewed only as someone that can do something for you. Really great examples of this happen all the time; most people won’t provide the help that in many cases they would when you only emphasize and talk about your own interests.

I believe at the core of our being we are all selfish. However, getting what you want can most readily be achieved by helping others get what they want. This is not necessarily less selfish, just a more effective way of achieving your end result.

I’m on a number of different social network websites daily, interacting with friends, casual acquaintances and people I have only just met. I’ll share an example from MySpace. I’ve gotten three different types of friend requests:

  1. People that make the request, then do nothing else after I have accepted. They don’t ask for anything and they don’t offer anything. I’ve had some of these around for a year or more without any additional interaction.
  2. People who make the request and then follow up with communication only about themselves and what they do, what they are selling, or what they want. I don’t even know them so why would I care, especially when they have demonstrated zero interest in me beyond what I can give or do for them. In some cases, they want to leave a comment on my page but the comment isn’t about me or anything I do; it’s all about using my space as a billboard for their information. Unless we have some interaction, I reject all these requests.
  3. People who attempt to connect on some level which always leads to opportunities. The attempt to show interest in another person makes that person far more receptive to helping you in your areas of interest.
Quality relationships are the emphasis of career minded individuals. Whether your motivation is genuinely about being part of a win / win situation or you just operate for the perspective of the cliché, “you can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar,” the point is the same; when you show interest in others, they will show interest in you. When you help others win, they will help you win.

Now, for the cynics out there who have collected many stories to the contrary and are quick to refer to them as examples of how or why they got burned, I say; yes, there are those who will take advantage of kindness, but even this can be offset with experience. If you get burned, learn from the experience and conduct your dealings differently next time.

If you get burned twice the same way, then you either needed the lesson reinforced, or you should begin questioning your commitment to success in your chosen field of work. Getting burned while helping others is avoidable, but it requires work on your part.

Careers are built upon ever improved skills, constant learning and relationship development. Relationships very often make or break deals. Consider this the next time you make a new business contact.

Wisdom from the Grind:  The quality of your relationships can make or break deals!
 Featured Project

Natasha’s album is currently on the high heat burner. Be sure to check the blog for updates.

Beat production for BanginBeatsByREL.com continues to be the priority until the first goal is met: 60 World Class Beats! We now have 27 on the site.

 Quote Of The Week
"You can have everything in life you want, if you will just help other people get what they want."

-Zig Ziglar; motivational speaker and author
 About Roger E Lear
Roger E Lear, also known as REL, has been creating and producing music for over 22 years. He has also helped many new as well as established artists create money making music.

He has built his career as a full time music producer by providing excellent quality music production and song writing services. You can learn more about REL at BanginBeatsByREL.com/About REL.

You can also find REL online at:
Twitter: Twitter.com/RELTheProducer
MySpace: MySpace.com/TheRELRemixes
MySpace: MySpace.com/REL_42
MySpace: MySpace.com/RELCreations
MySpace: MySpace.com/SmoothComposition
Facebook: Facebook.com/Roger E Lear